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Overcoming Your Inner Critic: The Best Path to Self-Compassion
Why Self-Compassion is Essential for Long-Term Happiness
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’m not good enough,” or “I can’t do this”? If these thoughts sound familiar, you might be dealing with what’s often referred to as the “inner critic.” The inner critic is that voice in our head that constantly judges, criticizes, and belittles us. It’s like an unwanted passenger, always questioning our abilities, decisions, and even our worth.
While it might seem like a part of us trying to protect us, the inner critic creates unnecessary stress and self-doubt, undermining our confidence. But the good news is that with practice, you can silence this voice and embrace a path of self-compassion.
Why Do We Have an Inner Critic?
The inner critic often starts in early childhood when we receive negative feedback or feel judged by authority figures. It’s shaped by our experiences, culture, and upbringing, and while its purpose is rooted in survival (keeping us safe and avoiding failure), it often becomes an obstacle to living a happy and fulfilled life.