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Constructive ‘No’: Watch Strategies For Vibrant And Superior Communication
A “no” to something is a “yes” to something else.
When you choose a plain coffee, you’re saying “no” to a cappuccino.
There’s no need to justify the “no.”
If the other person needs clarification, they can ask.
There’s no reason to get upset when you receive a “no.” People are different and can have different opinions.
When you say yes to a salad, you’re saying no to a pizza.
When you say yes to one project, you’re saying no to other projects.
Saying “no” is hard?
Sometimes, saying “no” is hard.
We have difficulties saying “no.”
We have a lot of beliefs about refusing someone.
I believe such beliefs are dysfunctional.
Because they don’t help us.
Here’s what we tell ourselves when we find it hard to say no: